Showing posts with label John O'Donohue. Show all posts
Showing posts with label John O'Donohue. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Luminous Gifts



A huge thank you to everyone who left such encouraging comments on my last post! 

As a way to ease back into posting while I try to catch up on seeing what's new in your life, I thought I'd share these thoughts from John O'Donohue in his book Beauty. Perhaps it will help one or two of you as much as it has me.


"Many of the most luminous gifts of our lives
arrive as complete surprises…

It comes ashore in our hearts carefully formed to fit
exactly the shape of a hunger we might
not even know we had…

Sometimes it is difficult to know
when you are getting a gift…

The beauty of the gift is the secret way
it awakens us to growth…
much of the change in our lives happens
through struggle and pain.

We are confronted with an unattractive
direction that we have to take.

For weeks or months we have to travel through limbo;
the comfort and security of our familiar 
belonging lies far behind us.
Where we will belong next has not yet become clear.

The days become a struggle of endurance.
Yet when the light and the ease return,
we recognize the change that has been achieved.

The gift bequeaths change in a
completely different way.

Quietly it undoes the knots of false netting
that had us entangled and before
we have time to realize what has happened,
we find ourselves released into a new fluency.

Like a parent to the soul,
the gift carries us carefully over torn ground
until our feet stand free in a serene place
where we can recognize that we have been blessed."

from John O'Donohue's Beauty




May each difficult path you and I encounter this week bring us unexpected luminous gifts.

My love to each of you,

Dewena





Friday, July 25, 2014

Responsibilities

This post is dedicated to everyone who is just plain exhausted at night--most nights--but especially to my loved ones. I can't really help. I couldn't even find a picture to post with this that reached the depth of my concern for you during times that simply must be got through, under the circumstances. This is just to say I worry about you and want for things to be better.



"The day is a chase after ghost duties;

at evening you are exhausted.

A day is over and so much of it was wasted

on things that meant so little to you,

duties and meetings from which

your heart was absent…

Your way of life has so little to do with

what you feel and love in the world.


But because of the many demands on you

and responsibilities that you have,

you feel helpless to gather yourself;

you are dragged in so many directions

away from true belonging."

--John O'Donohue
Eternal Echoes

Please don't think that I believe that every single word in O'Donohue's quote is true in each of  your lives.  And I recognize that your responsibilities are not just heavy but completely worthwhile, a sacrifice you're committed to and much needed at this point. That doesn't stop me from wanting more time for you to do the things that bring you joy and happiness. This is the only way I could think of to say that I care.